It's surprising how the mind works. At times I don't even realize the kind of stories it creates without my permission and control. The stories are hopeful and shattering at the same time, but they are stories, created when mind is idle, or when it's too occupied to even think or make sense. Still it manages to create them, almost mechanically.
Don't try to find any logic in whatever I have written. It's one of those blabbering moods. I want to talk a lot right now, but I don't know exactly where to start and what to talk about. There is a lot to say and nothing to express. Or maybe it's the other way round.
Love is never logical..Feelings aren't logical..We don't even realize sometimes what someone means to us..You realize the effect that person has on you when a single thought nudge you ... Again and again. Whenever you read it..It's strange, impractical, unreal, almost impossible; still existent.
After the initial excitement, everything seems to lose its charm suddenly. You do something new in your life and you are excited about it for a while. But then after sometime the same thing looks boring to you and you crave for a change.
You meet someone, sparks fly and you conclude you are in love. After being in the rapport for some time you suddenly realize that the association lacks the charm it had initially. The spark is gone and it now becomes a burden for you to carry around. It is said that, "Change is the only thing constant in life", but does this hold true even for relationships? And if it is so, then why do we say Love is forever?
A friend of mine gives a lecture whenever we discuss about our lives. He says, "If we are scared of changing we are scared of living. Change is perhaps the eternal truth of our lives. Everything changes. We change, with age the way we look changes, our tastes change, our thoughts and beliefs change, with various inventions and discoveries the world around us has changes."
He adds, the best part is despite all these changes we smile when we look at them reminiscing about the good old times comparing the new with them mentally.
Then why in relationships when people change we change our feelings towards them. Why don’t we accept their change also with a smile? Why do we conclude they have changed beyond recognition and walk away from them with a feeling of hatred? Why don’t we think for a moment are we still the same??
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