Have you ever wondered what
makes a relationship work? It is love, understanding, respect that keeps it
alive but much before that, it is the desire to have that person in your life.
You do everything because
you know no relationship is perfect. You had differences with your parents,
siblings and friends, and eventually you forget those differences and they are
still there in your life. Maybe, you left few friends and relatives in that
process. However, you left only those who were not important or the difference
was much bigger than the relation. There is of course a social angle to it. You
can't leave your family. Who does that? You can't leave your spouse. Why?
Society will judge you; you will have a tabooed word associated with you for
your entire life. Now, the question is...what about you?
You have a relationship to
which you are completely loving and honest. You make efforts to keep it alive,
you change yourself and you make sacrifices. But many years down the lane, you
realize you have lost yourself. You are nobody. You don't even know what makes
you happy. Sad, isn't it?
And one day you make a
decision. You say to yourself, 'I want to be happy. I want nothing but
happiness.' This is the day; you find all your answers you have been looking
for.
Respect yourself before you
respect others. Give your happiness more value. Make sacrifices not because
someone you love will be happy; make it because it makes you happy. Above all,
love yourself...
P. S. - But still.... It
take Two to Tango, Two to Fight and Two to make it Alright!
