So called intense emotion~~L.O.V.E

What makes us fall for that person? (Or in some cases those PEOPLE...)

Why do we love someone very completely?

Do we really love or is it a state of emotion so intense that one is carried beyond rational thought and self-control?

Do we fall in love using heart or brain? (I always do have a perplexity about this mind and heart)

So if love is in the brain and not the heart, is there ‘love at first sight’ after all? But how can one fall in love with someone they’ve never even exchanged words with?

Does it happens only once Or can it happen twice?

Arghhhh…..So many questions…okay let me stop by this single one…J

Does love really exists?    

      

Was talking to my colleagues at office yesterday and taking out their opinion on love. Few of them are married and few are single. Few had a love marriage and few had an arranged marriage!!

They all came up with different answers…love is care, love is about feeling special about the person, love is a thing that can help us  be together, love can be hurtful, love is freedom, love is magic, love is fun , love is divine, love is ecstasy, love is jealous and so on…

And in a random conversation with one of my friends, said love can be ego!!!!

I always wonder, why people fall for the simple things about them like their smell, their smile, their innocence, their child like attitude or even the way the walk can send our heart into flutters. Why is it that it sneaks up on you and hits you with the force of a train going at 120mph?

We don’t choose to love, certainly not. Just  another one of those things affected by those around us.

Why is it a lot of people fall in love when the people we meet are so random, so really you could fall in love with anyone? Anyone know, what is it that makes us chase after someone? Is it a chemical thing or physical or a mix?

All these feelings and I stop to wonder, why?

                                                                                                       
If anyone can shed any light on it, I know this question isn’t very clear at all, but just any ideas of what makes us fall for someone. Is it that we are attracted to people that remind us of our parents (those who nurtured us?) or those of a similar race or with a certain temperament, smell, voice, size…???ANYTHING at all, if you know anything I would be extremely interested also why we have no control over it, why we continue to love even when it is unrequited and puts everyone in such pain?

Seems like an never-ending quest to define this unexplainable idea — this elusive thought — we try so hard to give words to the feelings…but why do I want to blog something indefinable? why do I want to know what love is all about?  Another why??