As days passes on many people begin to reminisce on what has
happened over the past days. I am no different and recently have gotten into
multiple conversations about how days used to be and how they are now!!
It seems a bit funny that how we tend to enjoy clinging
onto the past. But why do we look back with such fondness? Is it that the present and perceived future
won’t be bringing the same kind of fun and happiness? Is it because we romanticize what has
happened, so we remember primarily the good things?
I feel it both ways; it can be taken as a good trait and can
be destructive as we try to mould our future to match those apparent past happiness.
But how about the not so good (bad) things happened? Will
they help us to be constructive in the future? If you ask me I would say a ‘Yes’.
After all it is said that “Failures are
the stepping stones to success.” And
we shouldn’t leave no stone unturned. J
There is nothing permanent in this world except change.
Change is the only thing that remains true...
When we ponder on what we have right now...be it is sorrow
or happiness...when we think on it...This too shall pass. Think of all the
moments of joy and victory we had in our life. Think of that moment of sorrow
and defeat we may have faced. Are they permanent? no the moment has gone and we
are healed. They all come and pass away. Life just passes away...
Life comes and goes. Sorrow was here and gone... Happiness
will come and may go...
The great thing about life is that it goes on – so that
eventually what brings us to our knees now might get us to our feet tomorrow;
because with every minute that goes by – life is happening whether you consent
or not.
Regardless of what
happens, life goes on – and so do I.Live in the now, and
aim high, dream big, and allow the future just unfold…
O my my!! You have become a philosopher :)
ReplyDeleteNice one :)
Philosopher-too big!! Life is all about being cool.we should be true to ourself...and everything will pass away...:)
ReplyDeleteWe cant remember the good things.. when we try to recollect the things only missing and bad things comes first.....in love only we can see the bad things as good things......“Failures are the stepping stones to success.” --its not true, failures are only the lessons, we learn something from them or we stop there ..... and changes will not be there in any human being only adaptability to the situation and location......Yes sorrow and joy are neither permanent nor temporary and influential....can u answer one question, y we like certain persons and wont like certain persons, all are good bt who is matching with ur attitude only u try to be close and says they are good........how ever the situations life will goes, it stops only whn we met death.
ReplyDeleteI think it over simplifies to say that we don't remember good things happened and only bad things comes first.Yeah..failure and success are the two relative terms.Failures provide experience. After all a man learns by experience.And I suppose we never hate people but we just hate certain characteristic features in them be it behavioral, temperamental, emotional and mental--that characterize a unique individual..And yeah youcan like them for the same in the future..After all change is inevitable :)
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